Season 2, Episode 24: Stop trying to Win the Argument | You, Me & We
Stop Trying to Win the Argument
Episode 24 of the You, Me & We Podcast
Healthier Communication and Conflict Resolution
Does every disagreement with your partner turn into a debate about who’s right? Healthy conflict resolution begins with a different goal: understanding each other and addressing the problem together.
In Episode 24 of the You, Me & We podcast, Rosa and Jefferson share practical tools for improving communication in relationships, navigating disagreements, and reconnecting after conflict. Through the wisdom of James 1:19–20 and everyday relationship examples, they explore how to protect connection while expressing your feelings, needs, and boundaries. In this episode, we discuss:
How trying to win an argument turns your partner into your opponent.
Why listening and validation don’t require agreement.
What to say when you need a break from a heated conversation.
How apologies, accountability, and boundaries support repair.
Three questions to help you communicate what’s underneath your anger.
Although this conversation focuses on couples, the listening and repair skills can also help you navigate disagreements with friends, family members, and other important people in your life.
You don’t have to disappear to stay connected. Bring your voice, address the issue, and make room to understand the other person.
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